On this path, some get lost, some give up and turn back, while others may reach the end of it. And they will all tell you a story about what happened. Abram, a winemaker from South Africa who could be considered English or Dutch (depending on who is listening to his plight), will tell you that everything went wrong when his wife stopped loving him, when his children could not be citizens of their native land, and when his country tried to imprison him and steal his right to vote and property. With a hint of irony, he will probably tell you that he committed the treason because he loved his wife and children.