From the author of the bestseller Odse*te comes an analysis of tough love that explains what makes relationships work: take responsibility and fix yourself.

"Love is patient, love is blind... Until once it isn't. What then?”

No matter how much advice we get or how much work we put into it, nothing ever seems to change. The truth is, you're downright woefully unprepared for one of the biggest life-defining things you'll ever tackle—a serious relationship.

Whether you're in a relationship or not, want to be in it, or only half in it, getting out of it, married, single, separated, divorced, or overwhelmed by it all, we'll cut through the mess of relationship topics and put you back in control above the situation. No flowery bullshit, no gibberish strategies, systems or techniques, just real talk for real people who want their relationship life to really work