Suddenly obstacles appear that we never dreamed of overcoming, and we feel what we never wanted to experience: A love relationship that we thought would last forever falls apart and we are suddenly painfully lonely, a job or the business we were counting on did not work out and our life loses its meaning and direction, our health or that of a loved one is threatened by an illness. Events beyond our control destroy our financial security. We are confused, shocked, surprised and angry with the style: "Where did I get here - in such a state of misery?!" We wallow in depression. We tell ourselves that everything will work itself out in time. We complain about the injustice of fate, the adversity of friends and enemies, our own mistakes.